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BEHAVIOUR OR WARNING ?

Certainly, children are most important person of our society.So we must be careful when grow up them.Because they are future of our community.Bringing up a child is related with us.I mean; if we are a mother or father, we will be a sample to our child.No speech is meaningful for a child, they only interest with their family behaviours.For example; the parents always says that telling lie is wrong behaviour but if parents tell lie, warnings are nonsensical.
On the other hand children are mirror-like their family.Whole behaviour of family effective on children.For example; if parents always do wants of their child, this child is spoiled and it will be difficult for his/her future.This child always do whatever he/she wants and this child exclude from society in the course time. Parents should be careful about the sensitive of their children. They shouldn’t do whatever children want. Maybe after some time passed, parents may do their wishes. It may be beneficial behaviour for children.
Other subject is that parent’s relations in their house. Their speaches and behahiours are important thing for children’s bring up. If father and mother always quarrel with each other, children’s opinions may be negative way. The most dangerous period is 6-10 period. Because, these children who are 6-10 can change their thought easily. They effect from everything. Even if parents argue with each other, they should change their places.In that, they should take pains that do not quarrel near their children’s. Parent’s speaches is also important as good as behaviours. Fathers be considered for boys and also mothers be considered for girls. Children imitate everything, especially parent’s speaches. For instance; father may say wicked words in his cavity times and his son may hear this sentence. He record it and always repeat this sentence in everywhere. So, they should be careful about their speech.
In conclusion, bringing up completely related with parent’s instruction.I mean; before bringing up a child parents must be well- educated about children.Parents must to be aware of their responsibilty about their child.They must notice importance of their behaviours than their speech.Parents can just bring up a child with their behaviour.

BENEFITS OF PUNISHMENT

Children are the most important wealth for parents. They are everything for a father or mother. Parents wants to do everything for their children while bringing up them. However, while children grow up, parents should be careful about their behaviour. Attitude of children is flexible and affected. Naturally, children make a mistake constantly. Parents have to correct their mistakes by different rules. If these rules disobey, what should parents do ? Should parents punish them ? Or not ?
I think the child is seriously misbehaving, parents should punish. I don’t mean beatings of course, but some slaps and spanks will do the child good in these circumstances. If the child make mistake, first step should be warn them as speaking. If child repeat his mistake, slaps and spanks can be work.If some children don’t understand the warning and they deserve beating. Slaps may be good lesson in some circumstances.
Beating children can be seen as a harmful;however when we look the parents ,in almost all families , they beat thier children because of various reasons.Sometimes it brings about possitive results.There are some possitive results of beating children.For example; beating children promotes education.Sometimes in order to achive the goal of education it can works. Students who is beaten can memorize even if an entire book in a day.It aslo provides dicipline for students and thanks to it they can be concentrate on lesssons.
On the other hand, punish isn’t explained just as beating. You may punish your child various types.For example; you have a 2 years old child who doesn’t understand any warning.Although you warn your child again and again, he/she doesn’t understand your monitory speechs.Therefore you must refer to slaps or your slipper.I’m sure that all of us were exposed to our mother’s slippers but these method of punish isn’t beating.It is only a warning type and generally it works.I know from my experience. I remember that one day I came my house at lately hours and my mother was waiting me in front of the door. When I entered, she started to slap me and it was a big lesson for me. After this event, I never come to house at lately hours. If my mother would warn me softly, maybe I could continue this behaviour.
To sum up, although some parents and experts claim that beating children can causes some phychological problems, it also has some possitive effects such as promoting education,repeat mistake and be good lesson for child. In limitaions, punish can be effective for bringing up a child.In necessary times,parents should punish to their children.

TO DESIRE GIVE UP SMOKING

Smoking dates way back in early times. It was used for medical purposes, but Europeans adopted the drug and decided to advertise it,day by day. Smoking have become a natural habitat for people recently. Because of this big change, governments have adopt a lot of measures such as conferences, grostesque pictures on the packets, price increase of the cigarettes, but these precautions usually aren’t effective for give up the cigarettes. Although people know that cigarette is harmful on their bodies, they continue smoking. For break up cigarette, you should want really. Unless you want to give up cigarette, none of the measure from the outside aren’t effective.
You can try all of the tactics of back out of cigarette. Because of your choosing about whether to start smoking or not, giving up the cigarette is your choice, too. As long as you don’t want to forsake smoking, you don’t interest with grotesque pictures of cancerous tumours and the health effects of tobacco on the packets. Only you decide to forsake smoking and success it just one day like Allen Carr. Allan Carr was dependent on cigarette but one day he wanted give up and that time he turned over a new leaf without cigarette. In that, this is the most important thing for forsake smoking.
Governments and authorities try to help to people about the give cigarette with their measures. For example; Australian government completely banned logos and branding on packets of cigarettes and changed colour of packets with olive green. Another example; in Turkey, government authorities have banned smoking in indoor places. They think that these are effective for give up.
Although government authorities think that these precautions are useful, people smoking more than prior. Moreover, tobacco companies raise their advertisement against the government’s measure. So, these measures aren’t considered by people. They still smoking. In that, as long as people don’t want to give up, any of the measure from outside can’t convince. These are worthless. One person who want to smoke don’t give thought to neither pictures of the cigarette packets nor allocution of the conference.
Finally, governments should abdicate introducing bans on smoking attractive. Their precautions are just in the abstract. They should know that they can’t make people leave cigarettes with law or pictures. Instead of this, they should boost them psychologically and they should take a strong interest one by one. Of course, this application have to free. On the other hand, they have to ban producing the cigarettes and completely.

As we  know, being famous  plays a major role in the media and people’s daily life, because, in any society people are always curious about celebrities’ lives and people want to be like them, they love watching celebrities as a role model for themselves. Therefore , television channels , newspapers, magazines and other media tools pay much attention to the personal lives of famous people such as public figures and celebrities. However, private lives of those  people should not be given that much attention.

Everybody has a private life in the society and each person should show respect to other’s privacy. Hence, no one’s private life interest other people but, the media do not respect private lives of public figures since the media are always broadcasting news about the celebrities. Moreover most  people do not complain about that due to their irresistible mania so , this is a embarrassing situation for the media and public of a country.

Magazine news causes a degeneration in a society because people follow useless presented as news instead useful news related to politics, economics, art and so on. As a result , people are isolated from real life and they may cling to fame and dreams which cannot be realized. Eventually, people stay away from reality , they become useless individuals for the society.

Although some people maintain the idea that private lives of celebrities should be given much attention in the media , because it helps people to get away from the unpleasant conditions in their lives. However  people can do a lot of things to get rid of stress and unpleasant conditions ,so they have lots of alternative ways to overcome their problems. For instance, they can join a lot of enjoyable social activities which are more entertaining  than magazine news related to celebrities. Hence, there is no need to broadcast news about private lives to entertain the public, because it is unethical and unpleasant.

To sum up, everyone should keep in mind that privacy is an important value for the society which should be respected by everyone. People should be interested in only their own lives because how we live is more important than how celebrities live.

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Exams are the key points of lessons at school. They are nightmares for most of the students. Because of this, you should prepare for them very well. Preparing is a long term study and it consists of three stages.

Preparing for exams starts in the lesson. Firstly, you should be careful about attendance and not miss the courses. Not to have a problem with your teacher and not to disturb your friends, you should come to class on time. Not to come to class, do not try to find an excuse or something to avoid going to lesson. Secondly, listen to your teacher carefully during the lesson. Ask questions while listening if you do not understand something related to the topic. Just focus on the lesson, do not talk to your friends about something irrelevant to the lesson. Thirdly, take notes during the lesson. While taking notes, do not write everything. Write your notes in plain, they should be understandable. If you miss any courses or a part of a lesson, get information and notes from your friends.

Second part of preparing for exams is related to arrangement before studying. Firstly, be ready mentally. Believe in yourself and do not be pessimistic or desperate. Be determined to study. Have self-confidence and think that you are not different from the others. Secondly, find a suitable place to study. The place should be quiet. Also, the place should be comfortable and not disturb you in terms of everything. Third, prepare your materials before studying. Take everything necessary with you. Arrange a timetable and do everything one after the other.

Last part of preparing for exam is about making rules and obeying them during studying. First, avoid the things that causes you lose your attention. Do not take your mobile phone with you, for example. Do not listen to music or watch TV while studying. Secondly, use your time efficiently. Arrange an effective timetable and stick to it while studying. Instead of having breaks whenever you feel like it, have your breaks according to timetable. Do not eat or drink anything while studying. Third, try to do your best every time. Think positively and be optimistic. Do not give up studying before finishing the necessary things. When you finish, review them for ten minutes and stop studying.

In conclusion, preparing for exams is difficult term. You should do everything one after the other. This term is composed of three stages; in the lesson, before studying and during studying. You should always be planned and do everything on time.

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